PERSONAL ADVISOR
Most high-achieving men have professionals to talk to about anything work-related. But on the personal side, many feel quite alone. And there's often something that quietly — or not so quietly — costs them quality of life. Something they've learned to live with, because they haven't been able to solve it on their own.
If this sounds familiar, you've found the right person.
Is your career running well — but something on the personal side is eating away at your quality of life?
I help high-achieving men understand what their personal challenges are really about
— and, more importantly, get them resolved.
So their success shows up as the best possible quality of life, across the board.
Your professional success shouldn't come at the expense
of the rest of your life. and it doesn't have to.
the best possible quality of life, across the board.
START WITH A MESSAGE
About how it works, or anything else. And if you want to say a bit about what's going on, you'll have my take before you decide anything.
BOOK A FIRST MEETING
Two to three hours. At your place, mine, or online. Where we get to know each other, and work out how to resolve your situation.
Then one meeting at a time
No programme. No retainer. A professional for the personal side who knows you a little better each time. No starting over.
WHAT'S EATING AWAY AT YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE?
A marriage that lacks intimacy
Patient all day at work, and short with the people at home
A grown-up child hard to connect with
Habits you know won't get you to eighty in good shape
Your own needs, always last
No one to explain what the doctor said, and what it means for you
Sometimes feeling like an imposter
A life that looks different from outside than it feels
Nowhere to say the worst of it or the best of it
… or several of these at once — or something else entirely?
Whatever it is, it doesn't get better by being left alone.
What I bring is a RARE combination
I've lived it myself — and resolved it.
Multiple start-ups, plenty of board work, married for 38 years, three children, four grandchildren. And, maybe most importantly, I've had my full share of what life can throw at a man. Most of my life, I set the bar unreasonably high for myself, and for years my life looked better from outside than it felt from inside.
That's what sent me looking. I've studied Quality of Life from almost every angle: a doctoral background in health and disease, training in leadership, coaching and mediation, and more self-development gurus and courses than I care to admit.
Plus more than a decade working closely with men who've built something.
In practice, that combination means you won't have to explain the world you live in. And over the years, most of what comes up I've either been through myself or helped someone else through. So it doesn't have to take long before we both understand what's really going on — and what your options are.
If something on the personal side isn't working the way it should — for you or someone you know — that's exactly what I help with.
Feel free to send me a message — about how it works, or anything else — I'll get back to you ASAP.
And if you'd like to tell me even a bit about what's going on, I'll tell you what I make of it.